Kristen
Football Stadium

I was listening to sports radio with the Hunky Hubby the other day (yeah I know...true love if you ever saw it right) and the announcer asked his guest if he though the two top quarterbacks in the draft this year would be able to make it in the NFL.

His answer was very interesting. He said that yes he felt they would succeed because: they came from solid families and had an excellent work ethic.

That got me thinking. This is the NFL, and no one is even pretending that they are about anything but winning and money. But what do they look for in the young men who they hope will bring them victory and loads of cash. They look for integrity. They want solid kids who know who they are and are willing to work hard and give of themselves to help everyone succeed.

Even out beneath the bright lights of the world, people are searching for individuals who display the qualities that Christ has asked us to showcase in His name. They are waiting for us to be like Him.

Lord, give me your power to become what everyone so desperately needs in their lives. Someone just like you.
Missy Hobson

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.   Philippians 4:6-7 
 
Its finals time at my university again, so you know what that means…Missy’s Stress Blog!

Let us begin…

Stress!

Sometimes you just want to rip your hair out.

It’s busy at my work and we just hired two new people which I am supervising and yet not supposed to supervise and yet no one else is doing it (if that makes any sense). Then don’t get me started on my class load!

Alright well you asked for it the minuet you opened this blog.

My class load is just getting more intense every quarter. I have ten days left of school so you would think that means I am almost done. Wrong! They try to trick you into believing that, then the teachers spring projects out of nowhere on you.  In my three classes I still have to write four essays, take two final tests, make one portfolio, make and present one presentation, and read one more Shakespeare play (I have read nine so far).

Then not to mention my commitments for praise team and being a leader at the high school youth group and polishing up my nonfiction narrative essay that is getting published.

A LOT is on my plate. And I can feel it weighing down on me. Not only mentally but stress makes you physically exhausted and your mood reflects all this to others.

Its times like these that I feel like God made sure Philippians 4:6-7 was in the bible specifically for me! But it’s not just me. It’s for you too. You might have as much stress as me, or more, or less but all of it is stress and God says, “Stop it! Enough of that nonsense and pray to me and everything will turn out alright”.

Now that doesn’t mean God is saying, “Hey Missy! You don’t need to write any of those essays as long as you chat all night with me”.  He’s not saying if I pray to him then I will wake up with a perfect paper under my pillow like money from the tooth fairy. You still need to do what you need to do. Just know God is on your side. And to do one thing at a time.

-Missy
Crystal Mazzuca

I like to think that I'm an organized person. I know what I need to get done and I'm usually pretty good about doing it.

Laundry - check

Grocery shopping - check

Clean the house - check

I actually enjoy those things. Well, not those mundane tasks specifically. But I love the results. There's nothing like a full fridge, empty laundry baskets, and floors smelling of Lysol to make me feel good.

But do you ever struggle to get things done where the results aren't quite so visible and immediate?

I always make time for laundry. I always make time for cooking dinner. But I don't always make time for my Bible. I put it off, reasoning that I'll be able to concentrate better when my other tasks are done. Then evening rolls around and I reason that I should just wait till tomorrow, knowing that I can't really concentrate when I'm tired.


Why are we so prone to putting off the things that will grow us spiritually? Sure, it feels like a chore sometimes. But so do so many of the other things we do - and yet we never fail to make time for them.

Is it because the results aren't always obvious? I don't know about you, but even though I don't always see a difference when I read my Bible, I always see a difference when I don't.

Discipline is an ugly word because it sounds like work. But it's more like training. Building muscle. It is slow, the results aren't quick, but it the long run - it is totally worth it.


Where does quiet time land on your to do list? Is it just something to get done because you know you have to, or is it a precious time you wouldn't dare miss? How have you disciplined yourself to grow spiritually day by day?

-Crystal
Kristen
The Flock


I have to awaken one of my boys twice a night to stumble to the bathroom. On school nights it is at 12:00 and 4:00am. But he is such a sound sleeper that just waking him up doesn't actually accomplish anything. I have to haul him out of his bed, set him on his feet, and propel him bodily toward our bathroom. There are many obstacles along the way. If I don't have both hands on his shoulders he will run into the edge of the bedroom door, the wall, my husbands dumbbells in the bathroom, the sink, the toilet, the bathtub... Lying in bed awaiting an accident is not an option, but there are dangers on the way to the potty that a sleepy boy cannot navigate on his own. And so I protect him and guide him on his way. Out of the soft bed and through the dangerous hallways of our home to the much anticipated bathroom and back to bed once more.


Psalm 23
"The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not be in want. He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me, your rod and your staff, they comfort me..."

And isn't this how the Lord cares for His children? He doesn't let us lie in bed waiting for an accident. He gets us up, guides us through the dangers in our path and gets us where He needs us to be. A place where we can grow up just a little bit. And perhaps someday, we will grow enough to stumble out of bed on our own and make it to the bathroom without getting a concussion on the edge of the door. But He is patent with me. And if He is this way with me, He can guide me as I stumble out of bed with my little boy. God is my shepherd teaching me as He leads me to who He needs me to become.
Crystal Mazzuca

I am a great cook. As my husband! Ask my kids! I am a lean, mean, gourmet machine. My menu is planned with the precise calculations of an organic chemist, the passion of a tortured artist, and the budget savvy-ness of...well, of a stay-at-home mom. I love to cook - period.

But I hate cooking for other people. You know when those announcements come at church and clubs that so-and-so just had a baby or that one guy is having surgery and people are bringing them meals and could you please sign up and this is loving people and serving the way Jesus would?

Yeah...no. Not me. Uh-uh. Never ever ever. I will have coffee with people till my pee turns brown, but don't ever expect me to make a meal.

I think we all have tendencies like that. We have things we're good at and things we're not. So we draw the line, step back, throw up our hands and say, "That's not my thing."

"Not my talent."

"Not my gift."

But is that Biblical?

"And all who believed were together and had all things in common. And they were selling their possessions and belongings and distributing the proceeds to all, as any had need. And day by day attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they received their food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved." - Acts 2:44-47

That's church. That's fellowship. That's the body of Christ. You have to imagine that not everyone was good at everything, but their generous hearts seemed to have no limits. Maybe Susie wasn't great a big group meals, but I'm betting she found something she was good at and found a way to be involved. Maybe she offered to clean up after everyone was done. Or maybe she made cute little encouragement parchments for people to put in their bathrooms. Whatever the case, she stopped being picky and started being involved.

Okay, I'm still not going to make a meal. But can I offer to clean? Buy groceries? Can I send encouraging notes? Can I bring Starbucks? Just as long as I do something.

Just as long as we all do something.

Just as long as you do something.

Where have you used, "That's not my thing," as an excuse to not be involved in something? Where might God be stretching you and your talents to serve and help in an area you never have before? 

-Crystal


Kristen

Revelation 2:26--"To him who overcomes and does my will to the end, I will give authority over the nations."

I can learn a lesson in faithfulness from our old dog. He limps painfully on one of his shoulders due to shoulder displecia and gets super hot on hikes with his thick shiny fur. His musel is silver with age but his eyes are always on us and whatever adventure we might be about to embark upon. Our family recently went on a two mile scramble up a rocky hillside near our home, and Shamu our old dog was game for the adventure. He panted and got highcentered on logs that he tried to hop over and limped over to every stray pile of snow we came across for a quick nap now and then, but he kept going.

As he gets older he becomes more and more faithful. We have become his whole world. Sure he still loves to bark at coyotes and chase a squirrel now and then, but what is really important is hobbling up our stairs and taking long naps close to my husband as he works in his office. Shamu is an overcomer, he is faithful to the end.

Dear Lord, grant me the strength of this sweet beast. I want to be an overcomer, help me to be faithful to the very end.

1 John 5:5--"Who is it that overcomes the world? Only he who believes that Jesus is the son of God."

Missy Hobson

 
“Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age”. Matthew 28:19-20

Feeling lonely is one of the worst feelings in the world.

There is nothing darker than feeling like you are alone. There are many different reasons why people feel lonely. Are you so busy it’s hard to stay in touch with friends and family? Did someone you care deeply about pass away? Are you going through a major event and feel like no one understands what you are going through or reaching out to you?

I know I have felt all of those things at one point or another in my life. Being lonely is not fun and hurts you mentally as well as physically.

Its bible verse’s like Matthew 28:19-20 that we need to remember in dark times like those. God is with us “always, to the very end of the age”. We are never alone. God is always watching you and standing right beside you. He understands perfectly what you are going through. And no one can help you and reach out to you like God can.

The next time you are in that dark place where you feel alone, close your eyes and remember God is just a prayer away.

-Missy